Emotional Intimacy Without Entanglement Was The Order Of The Day In 'Heaven'.

The Perfect Kings and Queens were extraordinarily close but not entangled in one another. They were emotionally connected through the heart but they were spiritually strong and so never became attached to each other. Entanglement or attachment is a sign of a lack of spiritual strength, a lack of self-respect or self love.

What is often called love is actually a dependency on someone who fulfils the unfulfilled need in myself. It's a trap and only ends in tears in one way or another. I become dependent on the other but if they change or leave my own boat starts to rock. This is a precarious way to live ones life.

The Perfects were self-aware, not just spiritually but also emotionally. Because of this, the world they lived in was perfect and remembered in mythical stories as heaven. It was only heaven because of the spiritual and mental strength of the Perfects not the other way around.

It is necessary to be emotionally fulfilled otherwise I become physically and/or mentally ill. Pure, positive feelings add colour and warmth to our lives. Becoming emotional (all emotion) means I am out of balance and in pain. Our emotions should be like a gently simmering pot not one that is boiling over.

The Perfects were emotionally balanced and their lives full of happiness and joy. They were stable, experiencing life to the full in a time of never ending joy. Their balanced emotions were a result of their powerful and balanced minds. We can become like that today and create 'heaven' for ourselves and share it with others. That would be nice, wouldn't it?

The Perfects were also spiritually intimate with each other and the entire world, including the animal and plant kingdoms and this is where the greatest joy and freedom lies. Focussed silence is necessary to achieve this and it results in bliss. Being spiritually intimate with each requires a deep understanding of the reality of the self and of time. It is the most powerful state of being and results in continuous love and harmony between those who have achieved it.